Saturday, August 1, 2009

Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

I have tatoos, peircings and my hair hangs in my eyes. When people meet me I get treated like some street punk, I'm a nurse.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

I'm French so yes, I am misjudged...people I meet think I'm sophisticated and that I can cook a gourmet meal in a flash!



They also think I'm horny all the time and not afraid to get naked and that I do not shave my armpits and that I love all kind of smelly cheeses.



Somebody said you should treat people the way you want to be treated but I say, go farther than that, treat people like they are what you want them to be and they will become that.



I do not treat people according to the way they look...I treat them according to the way I want them to be.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

No



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Damn straight!



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

no



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

yeah, people think I'm a snob coz I'm real quiet and shy :)



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

my ex has grossly underestimated me



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Depends on the people. Some people might have never seen anyone that is open to that kind of stuff so you can't really blame them, but there are people out there that are just full of it. Stupid, idiotic, Moronic, and cruel. Yes I have been, but honestly going through it made me a better and stronger person. You be ok man.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Haha...same..people think i am a geek.just because i am a gd student.they dun noe what's in the inside.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

All the time.



Im always told by chicks that they thought I would be an asshole because of the way I present myself. And when I ask how do I present myself, they say because of the way I walk, or something stupid like that.



Ive also been told I dont LOOK trustworthy, like I can control whether I LOOK like someone that can be trusted.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Yeah, i was the green hornet and people still think i'm going to sting them (i work in real estate now).



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Jen, Normally I don't have much to say.People tend to think I'm stupid or uneducated. I have two degree's. I've found that if I let people think what they want of me the tend to under estimate me, This generally sets them up for a rude awakening....



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Yes they have.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

your never to judge a book by its cover but most people do. We know as open minded people not to but the world is not so nice these days. Just remember who you are inside and don't let it bother you. If your personality shows through that rough image you'll be ok. Best wishes.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

My Mexican-Indian heritage is dominate...I let my hair grow to mid-back....and even though I had no criminal record (at the time) my future mother in law told all her relatives that I had a record as long as my arm.....made her .%26amp;..her daughter look like crap when we married and had 3 kids together...lasted 8 LONG very very MISERABLE years together before she decided she'd prefer her current...(yes there were more than one..I discovered later) lover over her family and me..best thing that ever happened for me (besides my children)



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

MANY MANY MANY times! Way to many to count. Starting years ago. People think I'm scary or mean....when in fact its the exact opposite. Its pretty sad that something as simple as tattoos and piercings should make people judge you so harshly but man do they ever continue to do it.



I really don't like judgements, but 1 thing that being criticized as helped me with is I believe I am much more tolerant and judge far less and I always stick up for the criticized under dog.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

yes all the time...makes a nice wepon if you ask me



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

wow!



what hospital do you work at??



I would not want to be in the hospital and see a tattooed, pierced, messy hair freak?



I too am a nurse, and we were always taught to be respectable, professional, clean, and always in white, even my shoes must be white, and squeaky clean!



I cant believe you work at a hospital like that- doesn't sound very professional to me.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

yeah.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

When people misjudge others for their social environment, job, income, and by judging them on how the world looks at them, that is unjust judgment. Please do not take this wrong because we are not to judge. We are not judging you on your appearance. We are looking at you as a professional. The profession that you are in needs respect, admiration for duties, and confidence in you as a nurse. The way you look gives your patients confidence that you are not some one who they need to be afraid of such as a drug dealer, a druggie, or somebody who cannot be trusted in many ways . You chose your profession and should have realized that the need as a nurse is to dress, act, and look, professional so your patients trust you and are more confident that your judgment will/may help save their life. No offense, if you want to have respect for you as a professional, act like the professional that you chose to be.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

appearance plays a vital role in how ppl perceive one another.



but who cares? back in high school people always thought i was an angel( because of how looked) but infact i was suspended three times!! for pulling stunts like putting fireworks in the principles office or planning a riot or some other dumb thing i did ( i was kind of rebel back then) my point is anyone who judges u based on appearance alone isn't worth ur disappointment. unfortunately the world has superficial ppl!!



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Absolutely. When people find out I am totally disabled, but look totally healthy they make judgments that I am not really disabled. People also think I am not very intelligent because my disease has affected my brain and it causes confusion, trouble retaining information, trouble with short term memory, comprehension and other problems. I have learned to let it go after all this time, there is nothing I can do about it.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

I have actually been misunderstood my whole life. There is nothing that shows on the outside like tattoos and body piercings or anything like that, but on the inside, I have always felt like an alien! I am also very sensitive, sometimes too sensitive, and I can be very intense sometimes too! I have learned over the decades to keep a part of myself hidden away from others, but on those occasions when I do show more of the real me, I sometimes regret it, because many people cannot handle all of the real me!



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

Yes someone has. But you sound like a great person to me. The way someone looks does not say everything about their personality. People are not justified in judging anyone until they've had an actual conversation. Stay strong. Be yourself. If people can't accept that, let their ignorance be their loss.



Has anyone ever misjudged your character?

All the time. I like to keep people in the dark about my real personality

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