Hey. I'm going to a My Chem. Romance concert and my aunts are freaking out because I dyed my hair black and I'm going no matter what they say. My parents say its fine and they think its cool that I dyed my hair. I know you're all gonna say "don't listen to them just tell them to f-off" but I CAN'T I'm best friends with my cousin who is their daughter and I won't be able to hang out with her if I blow them off, its a very sensative bomb to defuse!!! HELP! I try talking to my parents but they just say "ignore it" i can't ignore it if they're freakin' in my face!!! They think all of my punk-rock goth-rock music is evil and they think that the bands worship the devil at concerts and they think I'm going to become evil or something???? I don't understand!!?? Its hard to keep my mouth shut but I'm doing my best!!!
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
I think it's really nice that your parents are letting you be yourself. It speaks volumes about the support system you already have around you.
I can understand how difficult this is; you are very close with your cousin, and don't want to end up hurting your connection to her because of how you feel about her mom's feeling toward you. I think it would be a good idea to introduce her to a song or two off of the CD, encourage her to ask questions and even politely counter anything negative she says about the group(s) you listen to with hard positive facts rather than emotionally reacting or not reacting at all. She'll be surprised at how much you actually know about the band, when she may have been thinking you are just a mindless sheep.
Sometimes even family members need to respect boundaries. If you have tried all of the above and she still can't stop bringing it up, then don't let her discuss things like that with you anymore. I don't know how old you are, but I don't think there's anything wrong with saying "I'm frustrated and don't feel like discussing it any longer."
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
The worst thing you could do is to ignore it because then it will escalate. I would talk to your family all at once and tell them to have faith in you.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
Be as diplomatic as you can, for as long as you can, and be glad that you have the parents that you do, instead of your cousin's, who sound like a$$holes, and I am 57.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
Well just have them hear a cd or a song from them and tell them it's just a concert from a group. Also try to explain that how come your parents are ok with it and they aren't. And tell them you don't believe in teh devil you believe in God, Jesus Christ and the Holy Spirt.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
First, if they are 2 aunts who have kids, arent they lesbian?
Second, if your parents think it is cool and okay, what is the problem?
Ignore their rants, and spend time with your bff/cousain, without speaking to your freakin mean in-laws!dont go to their house when they are their, and tell them to please respect your wishes, hobbies, and freindship with their daughter. I hope this helps, you sound like an awesome kid1 My Chem. Romance is so cool. Maybe ill see you there. :)
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
OK YOU KNOW THAT THE GOTH FREAK'S PEOPLE OUT. SO IF YOU CAN'T RUN WITH THE BIG DOGS STAY UNDER THE PORCH.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
well if ignoring them doesnt work then i would tell them to leave me alone if YOUR PARENTS dont care then what gives them the right to be all in your business if you're not worshipping the devil they should let you be you just tell em off since your parents wont do anything
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
Your parents are right !! Ignore them !!! Try telling them that your just having fun and you'll grow out of it but for now you need to find yourself and you don't want to be a carbon copy of everybody else !!
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
I hope I am wrong, but you may be in a no-win situation.
I think you might want to ask your folks if they can take some of this stuff off of you. If they are Aunts, they are sisters of one or both parents. I think I would shut my female sibling down if she started harassing my kids.
Another route might be to laugh when they haze you. Maybe turn the whole thing into a joke.
But if it comes right down to it, your cousins may have to go. You may have to shut them down like I business gone bankrupt.
Good luck, and do give your folks a chance. At least tell them how much the nagging is bothering you.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
Listen to me sweet heart;I don't know if you really understand what gothic is all about,but what i can tell you is that gothic began many yrars ago,and is a cult where,when you get involved in it they eat human flesh,sacrifice babies in their services,and if you know to much they will kill you if you try to leave their way or threaten to expose them.Honey I know this because a dear friend of mind had to literly remove her son from this area for that very reason.These people ran a friend of his down,when all he was doing was walking on a sidewalk an almost killed him,and another friend of his is dead.Look all they were doing is playing around
1.dressing like them
2. talking like them,you know trying to fit in and the gothics were offened and took very drastic measures to dispose of them.Please listen to those who love you,You really sound like a person with a good head on your shoulder's,please use the sense that God gave you and heed the wise imput from your loved ones(i know these things are true so help me.
Getting sick of taking $h!t from relatives with no authority, help me out?
don't listen to anyone do ur own thing and just don't care! u guys r cousins how can they not let you see each other if you go to the same weddings, family gatherings, and funerals
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